getting help

The art of delegation seems to be an area that is very difficult for people to learn. Etiquette and manners from years gone by have added to our lack of asking for help. We don't want to appear rude or we don't even know how to ask for help without sounding terribly bossy. There is a fine line between being perceived as pushy, lazy and rigid and being able to delegate effectively. Usually all that is necessary is a change in tone, adding please and thank you and setting boundaries. I think we might have learned most of this in kindergarten but have lost it somewhere along the way.